An [Un]fulfilled Life

 

An [Un]fulfilled Life

 

 

You and I were born incomplete.  Before a single word even came out of your mouth, before you made a single decision, there was a void.  As human beings, if necessary we will devote our entire lives to fulfilling this feeling of emptiness. We paint on a face as though everything is perfect, yet deep down, many of us are left searching for that missing piece. Universally, we all want to feel as though we are loved and have a purpose.  However, we often make the mistake of placing the responsibility of our fulfillment on personal goals, material things, or even other people.

The truth: People, things, and even YOU cannot fill the void in your life.

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. Proverbs 14:12

In a world filled with sin and imperfection, it is simply impossible for us to find fulfillment by means of human capabilities.  As much as I’d like to believe that I can be complete by creating goals and filling my life with many pleasing things, I am instead left still feeling empty.  As I’ve been reading the book of Ecclesiastes, the persistent theme of actions, possessions, and accomplishments perceived as “meaningless” has illustrated to me the harsh reality that no matter what I do, and no matter what I achieve or receive, I cannot be fulfilled by the things of this world.  The verse above states, “the way which seems right to a man will end in death.”  Essentially that means when we choose to do things our way, we are not only left unfulfilled, but also guilty of sin.

The truth: Surrendering your desires, your future, and your purpose is the first step to fulfillment.

So let God work his will in you. Yell a loud no to the Devil and watch him scamper. Say a quiet yes to God and he’ll be there in no time. Quit dabbling in sin. Purify your inner life. Quit playing the field. Hit bottom, and cry your eyes out. The fun and games are over. Get serious, really serious. Get down on your knees before the Master; it’s the only way you’ll get on your feet. James 4:7-10 (MSG)

As hard as this may seem, surrendering these things will give you a sense of freedom.  The truth is, we are not created to carry the burdens of our lives, and it is essential we accept the fact that are fulfillment is not dependent on ourselves or others, rather, is dependent on our Creator.

The truth: There is One who will carry your burdens, instill purpose, and give freedom in your life if you let Him.

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

…and in Christ you have been brought to fullness. He is the head over every power and authority Colossians 2:10

Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man comes to the Father, but by me. John 14:6

Whether we like it or not, humans are simply incapable of filling in all the gaps.  Sure, we can make ourselves happy for a period of time, but the unyielding peace, joy, and love we all desire only comes from Christ. In a culture that praises being self-sufficient, it’s easy to get sucked into believing we can truly be complete on our own. However, when our friends let us down, when possessions or goals don’t bring us that fullness, or even when we let ourselves down, there is only One who can pick us back up.  He puts us back together; He restores our strength; He forgives; and He fills in the gaps. You see, we don’t need to keep seeking ways to feel complete.  When we simply make the decision to surrender our everything to God, He will give us complete fulfillment.  When we give our everything to God, we need nothing BUT God.

Until next time,

-Tamara